Relations with Your Lawyer-Information must flow easily between you and your lawyer in order for the two of you to effectively resolve your case. Because all conversations with your attorney and his or her staff are confidential, you should be completely honest with your attorney. If you do not understand a request or advice from your lawyer, always ask for clarification. Scheduling an appointment will assure you a time to speak with your attorney. If you have a true emergency, notify the staff when you call.

Practical Tips-Don’t physically or verbally abuse your spouse or children. Do not discuss the proceedings with your children. Don’t increase your spending for yourself or others; it may affect your case. Retain your financial records and other important documents in a safe place. Don’t hide evidence or assets. It will escalate the cost of the divorce and reduce your credibility. Try to maintain emotional equilibrium. Overlook petty annoyances, focus on the larger picture. Consider counseling when you need someone to talk to and to help you sort out emotional issues.

Keep a list of minor incidents and relate them to your lawyer at one time during a regular appointment. Talk to your lawyer before agreeing to a settlement. Schedule an appointment to see or talk to your lawyer.

Notify your lawyer of any change in address, telephone numbers, or place of employment. Be courteous to the office staff.